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By: One Nice Guy(In Love)

Here is the deal, for the past 2 weeks my son has been sick he has had a sinus infection and then the stomach flu. He is 22 months old. Now my husband is military and works from 6 am to about 4 sometimes 5. Im also 5 months pregnant. Im a stay at home mother, one because i would like to be at home with my son and two if i worked my whole pay check would go for day care there wouldn’t be any money left over. Okay now for the past 2 weeks i haven’t gotten much sleep due to my son being sick and my unborn baby kicking the crap out of me every time i lay down and very bad back and leg pain. Now im supposed to be taking it easy on dr.s orders. I havent gained any weight at all i actually lost 6 lbs. Well last night i called my ob and they told me if i needed to i could take a tylenol pm so i could get some sleep so i did, and i didnt get to sleep till about 2 because of the pain i was in. Now my husband got up at 830 took a shower and then at 9 decided to get me up, i told him i wanted to sleep in until 10 and asked him to get our son up. He threw a fit about it and said he had to go work. Which he just has to go chop wood because we have a wood stove. So then i was like whatever and got up and i was walking to my sons room and my husband goes what are you doing and i said im going to go get our son since you wanna throw a fit about it and he said quit being a b**ch. So then i changed my son and put him in the high chair and my husband was bi**hing at me so i told him you said you had to work so go work. He got all p*ssy and told me to leave and i said no im here 24/7 you leave your the one that has to go work. Then he said F**k you and walked out the door. then i went to go smoke outside i dont smoke in the house ( and please dont yell at me for smoking im still cutting down im only smoking 3 a day) And i told him before he come back in the house he needs to apologize to me for what he had said and he started yelling at me so then i just gave up. Now last weekend we had some what the same problem, i was up till 4 am with our son friday night/ saturday morning. Well my husband got up at 8 and left to go outside and work. Well i had thought he went to go get our son because i heard him fuss and figured since my husband was up he would get him. nope i wake up at 930 and my son is in his room still. Im mad. Basically he is only a father when he wants to be. monday -friday he maybe helps with our son for 2 hours. and on the weekends he is always gone doing something. I still feel like im a single parent( my husband was deployed for 8 months)
Am i over reacting by being so irritated?
What would you do?
I know im doing the best i can but i do need to get some sleep here and there right?
I just need some advice i guess and if any of you have gone threw this!
For the people who said i need to leave him thats how so many divorces happen relationships go threw ups and downs and you dont just walk out when the going gets tough. Im guessing either your not married or your divorced. Just because he called me a b*tch doesnt mean i need to leave him, i called him a name a time or two before.

And as for my son sleeping he sleeps great when he isnt sick he has just been sick thats the problem.

By: USAF wife # 2 due in june